Psychological Abuse

Psychological Abuse

Psychological or emotional abuse involves threats of harm, bulling and harassment and other behaviours or acts of coercive control which deliberately try to scare, humiliate, isolate or ignore an older person.

Such abuse can also relate to acts that may contravene the human rights of older people, such as the restriction or prevention of older people meeting their religious or cultural needs.

It is rare for psychological abuse to happen in isolation and often it is linked to other forms of abuse or harm.

What are the signs of psychological abuse?

Psychological abuse can have a profound impact on someone’s mental health. Victims can feel trapped, threatened, humiliated, used, or a combination of all these. Most signs therefore relate to someone’s mental state, and changes in behaviour:

Helplessness.
Hesitation to talk openly.
Implausible stories.
Confusion or disorientation.
Anger without apparent cause.
Sudden change in behaviour.
Emotionally upset or agitated.
Unusual behaviour (sucking, biting, or rocking).
Unexplained fear.
Denial of a situation.
Extremely withdrawn and non-communicative or non-responsive.
An older person telling you they are being verbally or emotionally abused.

Psychological Abuse brochure

Why does abuse happen?

Why does abuse happen?

What to do about abuse

What to do about abuse

Case Studies

Case Studies

If you or anyone you know is suffering from abuse contact our 24/7 helpline

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Psychological or emotional abuse involves threats of harm, bulling and harassment and other behaviours or acts of coercive control which deliberately try to scare, humiliate, isolate or ignore an older person. Such abuse can also relate to acts that may contravene the human rights of older people, such as the restriction or prevention of older people meeting their religious or cultural needs.

Physical abuse is any intentional act or behaviour causing injury, trauma or other physical suffering or bodily harm. This includes instances of fabricated or induced illness or causing an older person to become unwell.

Sexual abuse involves any non-consensual sexual act or activity perpetrated against an older person. Such acts can include rape or attempted rape, sexual assault, involving an older person in making or viewing sexual imagery against their wishes, indecent exposure, inappropriate sexual harassment, sexual teasing, innuendo, or non-consensual masturbation.  

Neglect occurs when a person deliberately withholds, or fails to provide, suitable and adequate care and support needed by an older person. It may be through a lack of knowledge or awareness, or through a deliberate decision not to act when they know the older person in their care needs help. Neglect can negatively impact the health and well-being of an older person.

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Domestic abuse, or domestic violence, is any incident of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of their gender or sexuality.

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